Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Never...
Never let others define your choices.
Never stay just because it's easier than leaving.
Never be dependent on anyone financially, emotionally or otherwise.
Never let others talk you out of something you know is right for you.
Never allow mediocrity. Period.
Never mistake fear for common sense.
Never be boring.
Never be less than you know you can be.
Never think about a "ceiling" where your goals are concerned and if you do, imagine it to be the fragile, breakable kind.
And mostly...
Never EVER give up.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Why Aging Doesn't Suck, Reason #29 - Tilda Swinton
Because at 50, she is the face of iconic Scottish label Pringle whose successful relaunch has as much to do with Swinton's endorsement as it does their clothes.
Because she openly lives, well.. openly - juggling a committed, long term relationship with additional paramours should the mood strike her (which is exactly how she met her current boyfriend whilst still married), and nary a modicum of shame about her non-traditional lifestyle is evident anywhere.
Because she makes makes androgyny sexy and gender irrelevant whether it's her Flock of Seagulls inspired tresses, or the roles she chooses (she has played Mozart on stage, an Elizabethan nobleman in Orlando and an androgynous angel in Constantine).
Because she made this startlingly honest declaration much to the delight of mothers everywhere, "I think I enjoy my work now even more simply because it's even easier than it was. It sounds sacrilegious to say that anything's a delight when you're away from your children, but the truth is that it is refreshing to only have yourself to dress in the morning, and to lie diagonally across the bed. Making films, going round the world on tour - all these crazy things that were so difficult before are so much easier than breastfeeding twins for 14 months that frankly it is a delight."
Merry Christmas Bitches
Here's to defining ourselves by virtue of our integrity, character, style, wit, empathy, love, selflessness and friendship.
Here's to injecting each moment with truth, levity, honor, and passion.
Here's to reminding ourselves never to sit in judgment, monitor all thinking and steering the mind from fear to faith.
And finally, here's to wisdom, women and a good glass of wine.
Sunday, December 12, 2010
All Herald V Magazine
The always exhilarating V Magazine launched it's Who Cares About Age issue - a knockout featuring Jane Fonda on the cover and a stunning editorial featuring 4 former supermodels, all of whom are well over 50, and all of whom continue to captivate with their ageless beauty, divine style and of course the intangible special sauce that makes some women just get better with age. Check it out.
http://www.vmagazine.com/2010/11/v66-winter-20102011-the-who-cares-about-age-issue/
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